I'm assuming you're talking about Chris there? Yes, a few people are sporting beefcake in honor of Biblio's birthday and I'm not really the male model type so I went with the rocker theme. He's as good a beefcake as any.
Oh my gosh, there is nothing, not even remotely upbeat about The Idiot. Dostoevsky might like Myshkin, but that doesn't stop him from torturing the poor man endlessly. Not one happy or sentimental thing happens in that book so you don't have to worry about that. It is both dark and tragic. And I hear you about Brothers Karamazov, I had a hard time with that one but The Idiot doesn't have quite the tangents than BK has. Dostoevsky has a tendency to rant, that's there in some form in all his books but I didn't find it as bothersome in this one as Brothers. The Posessed is excellent as well, I have a hard time deciding which is my favorite Dostoevsky book, that or Crime and Punishment...it's that good.
Well, I thought it was interesting when Chekhov said that Dmitri "feared" his wife, it's an interesting choice of words considering that he was dismissing her for being unintelligent and inelegant. There's part of me that thinks what Dmitri fears the most is emotional intimacy, hence his affairs and his opinion of women as the "lower race". He sets himself apart from them and objectifies them, even his wife he keeps at a "safe" distance. I think to a certain extent, that's why I feel his relationship with Anna has a fair chance of being real. Chekhov even says, "And only now when his head was grey he had fallen properly, really in love-for the first time in his life." Who's to say he can mantain that feeling, falling in love can be easy, it's mantaining that gets tricky.Yeah, I was rolling my eyes at Dmitri's misogyny and also his pretentious wife. They're quite a pair. Do you think Dmitri really means it, though? Does he really view women as a "lower race" or is he merely being guarded? In that great paragraph where Dmitri learns the difference between his personal life and his fake social life, he considers his negative view of women as part of that disingenuous public life. Could Dmitri's disrespect towards women be fake?
Ah but doesn't Dmitri address this specifically?Or, what happens when Anna discovers that Dmitri isn't the kind and lofty gentlemen that she thinks he is?
Dmitri doesn't seem to be too worried she'll come to her senses and perhaps with her, he will be lofty. Perhaps she'll give him the honor and depth of character that women have always imagined he had....it's a possibility anyway.He always seemed to women different from what he was, and they loved in him not himself, but the man created by their imagination, whom they had been eagerly seeking all their lives; and afterwards, when they noticed their mistake, they loved him all the same.
Well, they do have a lot of sex because, you know, they have a lot of kids so while it's not spelled out in the book, maybe for the movie they've "fleshed" that part out a bit.Wow, that does sound hot. You right; I don't remember that part in the book, either. Was it still the same story--though with a little more nudity?